The answer starts here. No growth, no learning, no strength has come to me without suffering. Without adversity, challenge, and heartache I could not have uncovered the strength waiting inside of me. This is a damn tough lesson. None of us wants adversity but without it, we cannot uncover who we are. Under the entire pretense, all the success, the ego, all of it, lives the real self. The lesson I have learned, that serves me best is this, my real self is the strongest person I know and I’m absolutely in love with her.